Your libido is sometimes your best friend. But sometimes just a word from the dictionary. In those cases you should especially make sense.Since you have no need to hear Kim Holland. These tips sway your sexy mojo lot to. Yieeehaa!
Of course, true beauty is on the inside. And you want to play a convincing sex kitten in the bedroom, which is to encourage you as often. But with a little hook or by crook (lingerie is so much more important than we think, so we came back) we can immerse ourselves even more in this role. And so we still know a few.
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Doe (sexy) lingerie
Obviously. And it really does not push up bras or to trifle with feathers.Most men skip this unnecessary fuss about even gladly. But those chronic saddlebags (we have given up hope but) we still prefer to hide in a sexy high-waist retro underpants than in a tiny thong. And another tip: pull those sexy lingerie morning already to go to work, because you know what he will soon discover.
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You dress code
In that one jeans you've got a nice bunch buttocks. In this tip come your breasts beautiful. That dress makes you figure out well. And those heels give you that extra boost in self-confidence and make your hips more rocking (and if you wear them so without pain and discomfort). The point that we want to do with this? Firstly, you will receive a file of compliments and catcalls. Second, we like to highlight the importance of clothing in which you feel sexy, because it does wonders for your confidence in the bedroom.
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Dim the lights
Sex with a fluorescent lamp on your bed is mood killer. And let's not get started on the inferiority complex that we have accumulated through the many fitting room sessions. Besides, you feel not like a lot sexier in an environment where small bedside lamps hang? Where the candles burn? And experiment with a streak of red light in the bedroom can also work wonders.
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Musical oorstreling
I do not want to personalize it, but for me, music plays a big role in a) how I feel at all and even more specifically b) how I feel feminine and sexy in the bedroom. The fact that many women rapidly create additional oxytocin and vasopressin (hormones making you so gets a bit horny) when they hear their favorite song or when they hear a 'sexy' song says it all. This is because music activate the same pleasure centers in the brain as when you have sex. Tip: in a sexy Spotify playlist.
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Read an (exciting) book
We women just are visually oriented, and we can quickly make all representations of something (exciting adventures with Javier Bardem * ahem *). This immediately explains the success of 50 Shades of Grey, which our brain quickly went along the stroke. Sometimes a (slightly) erotic book exactly the right kind of foreplay.
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Waxing but
Let us ask first: you or the bush bush or not much less, that's all right.This should know every man for himself. But there is a fact of something in us when we have a set of smooth and shiny legs and a beautiful runway or Brazilian wax. As if it even more emphasizes your femininity.It may sound like a lot of effort and you have to endure anything pain and a hefty bill, but you will end up with all the self-confidence that make pants.
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Relax
Good sex depends on what goes on in your head. Stress and fatigue are often the major libido killers. And sometimes you just have to make sense, not ladies? So make you have a night free, the kids are just outside the door, go in advance bath, light the candles and take a good wine. Or do take a yoga class (because see point 9).
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Forget comfort
The reason that the missionary is the least popular among both men and women: it is so predictable. Doing things outside your comfort not only boost your self-confidence, but also gives more adrenaline. In short: color once outside the book. Send him an unexpected moment a sexy appje or photo, give him fierce looks, sexy handiwork under the table, have sex in the shower and pull it challenging dress that you would not normally attract so quickly.
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Sports
Through this workout you will feel not only healthier and fitter, but also makes you more happiness hormones and your self image is more positive in the test. This is also shown by research. The good news: all this money for a good lap running, cycling or any other form of exercise.
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Make that fantasy a reality
Who does not dream of what Christian Grey practices? A little experimenting with bondage in the bedroom, why not? Some fantasies are really not as crazy as you might think. As we said, come out of your comfort and go crazy. Can he appreciate solid.
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Dirty talk
Do you know why that guy actually still yours before you fell? It can not hurt - it's even fun- him again asking. And ask him even as anything he would find ridiculously sexy in the bedroom. For both of you a perfect warm-up.
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Flirt!
The fun of an old-fashioned night out with your girlfriends in addition to the amount of fun also the fact that you again even without honor can flirt with others. That you for ten years every night is next to the same guy in bed (which otherwise is the best of all), yet it does not banned. It is even better for your relationship! Make eye contact with those nice fellow, give a nod to that handsome man in the street or smile more at people. This sense of focus and possibly even appeal does wonders.Knowing that you are still good lies in the market, besides laughable yet so flattering?
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Stop compare
It's not a competition! Sounds easier said than done when you're overloaded channels all social media with carved faces and perfect bodies. And we women are a star in comparing and especially ourselves get down. Stop this! Now! Because men pay attention totally on all the details that you see it.
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